What does it look like to put your identity in God–regardless if you are married or single? Bethany Belue joins Karen Hodge to talk about singleness and how God used waiting in her life to grow her faith.

Discussion Questions:

  • In a season of waiting, it can be easy to doubt God’s love or God’s goodness. What story from the Bible is a picture of God that affirms both His goodness and His love for His people in times of waiting?
  • During this season of life, on what are you waiting? Take a moment and really search your heart for those places of unfulfilled longing.
  • Bethany describes how her season of waiting made her go to God and His Word to find her identity. In your longings, have you turned to God?
  • Do you have friends that are in different seasons of life?
  • Who is on your team? Whose team are you on?

About the Speaker:

Bethany Belue

Bethany Belue currently works at CDM wearing several different hats including Certification Administrator, Established Coordinator, and Executive Assistant to the CDM Coordinator. Before joining the CDM team she spent most of her single years in NYC working in Children’s Ministry at Redeemer Presbyterian Church. In 2014 She moved to Birmingham, AL to become the Children’s Ministry Director at Oak Mountain Presbyterian Church where she met her husband Dustin. Bethany and Dustin have been married for 2 years and live in a suburb of Atlanta, GA. In her spare time she writes much about life, singleness, marriage, and anything else that comes to mind on her blog “Dreams and Spaghetti-o’s.

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